Date: Wed, 5 Nov 1997 19:55:50 -0500 From: Gerald Cohen Subject: Re: Indian giver Recently there have been some queries about "Indian giver." I see that the Dear Abby column treated the expression earlier this year; my copy is from the _St. Louis Post-Dispatch_, Feb. 4, 1997, sec. D, p.2/1-2; title: "'Indian Giver' Definition Opens Up Culture Clash." I have no idea about the accuracy of the replies Abby received and printed; is there a specialist on Indian cultures out there who can confirm or dismiss the suggestions advanced? Here are two of the replies she printed: 1) "The term 'Indian giver' has to do with honor. Indians were great gift givers. If the person receiving the gift did something that was dishonorable or otherwise brought shame, the giver could ask for the gift to be returned. The giver did not want to be guilty by association." 2) "In the Indian culture on the East Coast, you could "borrow" a tool, use it and return it in the Golden Rule tradition. ...When the Indian would "give" an item to someone because it was praised or needed, the settlers complained when the owner wanted it back--hence the name 'Indian giver'." --Gerald Cohen gcohen[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]